In life, we often tie our sense of worth to the roles we play and the recognition we receive. But sometimes, despite our best efforts, it feels like we’re not seen or valued for who we truly are. The truth is, every one of us has unique talents, strengths, and qualities that make us valuable – but sometimes, we’re simply not in the right environment to let those qualities shine.

Think of it like a plant. If you place it in a dark corner and deprive it of sunlight, it will struggle, no matter how resilient it may be. But if you move it to a place where it can soak up the sun, it will thrive and blossom. People are the same way. When we’re in an environment that aligns with our values, nurtures our strengths, and encourages us to grow, we flourish. However, when we’re in spaces that don’t appreciate what we bring to the table, it can be easy to question our own worth.

I’ve experienced this in my own life. As someone who came to America alone at the age of 17, learning the ropes of a new language, a new culture, and navigating adulthood was challenging. Early on, there were many times I felt out of place, as though my voice didn’t matter. But as I pushed forward, seeking places and people who saw potential in me, I began to realize that my value wasn’t determined by those who couldn’t see it.

Finding the right environment has been instrumental for me – whether in my career, personal growth, or entrepreneurial endeavors. I learned that it’s okay to outgrow spaces that no longer serve us or reflect our value. It’s okay to seek out environments that celebrate our strengths and challenge us to grow. And it’s essential to believe that, just because we aren’t thriving where we are right now, doesn’t mean we don’t have something incredible to offer. So, if you’re in a place where you feel undervalued or unseen, remember that your worth isn’t defined by your surroundings. You have value – it might just be a matter of finding the right place to show it.